Every relationship far or near will break up or maybe more one way or another. Later in life there will be more sacrifices than relationship themselves. You’re going to work, move out etc. You’ll always be leaving something behind. Life always changes, and so do relationships. You evolve with each other. It’s not about who loses and one person throws everything away to be with somebody. It’s more about accommodating them into your life and being considerate of each other. 

Relationships are not simple things, they have so many factors and it is a complex process that others cannot understand fully unless it’s the two lovers. Even in person you’re going to be talking on the phone and webcamming, doing activities repeatedly. Long distance relationships are no different, they may have a higher thrill from seeing each only every so often. But it is also a beautiful thing, two people separated by distance and fate, working hard to write their own paths together.

So to whose who doubt long distance, and think “ohh you’re just going to breakup” So will you in person. So will you living next door to them. Even maybe because they exist further away you’ll learn the real meaning of appreciation, dedication and patience.

Those who doubt it should just never be in relationships if you’re always going to think of the end and conclusion. Every relationship is a learning process, it’s not simply break up and move on. It’s all about what you’re going to do with that time with them.

People spend too much time pondering the “what if and the end” than “what now and what can I do now to make sure we don’t walk separate paths”