June 29, 2011
June 28, 2011
It only takes courage, hope, passion, faith and prayer.
I messed up making impulsive decisions. Good thing chances are unlimited and there are opportunities everywhere. Just need to find it at the right place and at the right time.
When a door closes, there's always a window. This is it. But this time, I have to concentrate on my goals. No more distractions. I'm pretty much exhausted trying to build something that doesn't even exists. I know there's something for me out there. My passion doesn't end with a simple fall. I have to utilize what I have.
"Everything is possible,
Nothing is impossible."
June 18, 2011
alam mo ba ung feeling na.. pag cra araw mo bnbiro mo nlng mahal mo para mpangiti xa.. tapos magiging ok kn?
“No truth can cure the sadness we feel from losing a loved one. No truth, no sincerity, no strength, no kindness, can cure that sorrow. All we can do is see that sadness through to the end and learn something from it, but what we learn will be no help in facing the next sadness that comes to us without warning.”
June 5, 2011
“You say that you love rain, but you open your umbrella when it rains. You say that you love the sun, but you find a shadow spot when the sun shines. You say that you love the wind, but you close your windows when wind blows. This is why I am afraid, you say that you love me too.”
| — | William Shakespeare |
“It didn’t ache because he was gone. It ached because he didn’t tell her when he would come back. All that distance and all that time apart would turn them into strangers again.”
At Musing’s End (Wong Fu Productions)
A picture is worth a thousand words but a simple phrase is worth a thousand pictures. A phrase may only consist of a few words but there can be so much history, memories and things that want to be said behind them. You don’t have the need to say it because you feel you need to but rather it’s something that comes out naturally when you think about a certain someone. So, an I love you is not only an I love you because the meaning behind it is stronger than you could ever imagine.
Someone once told me that it is simply pointless to burden yourself with the regrets of your past. She said that for one to live beautifully, one must be able to grow into something remarkable despite the troubles in life. You could cry or try to fix something that can no longer be repaired but in the end, it’s how you grow as a person.
Pictures..
I find a photograph takes you back and makes you think about a lot of things.Where was this photo taken? What did we talk about before we took this photo? How was I feeling? How were you feeling? Where are we now? Do we still have that same relationship we portrayed in the photograph? How much have we changed?
A photograph can also represent change. A reminder that something was once real and can also be a wake up call that not everything lasts forever.
June 4, 2011
Everyone has a secret they haven't shared. Everyone has a past no one's heard about. Everyone has talents that people don't notice. Everyone has weaknesses hidden inside. Everyone has a story left untold, so never start judging someone thinking you know them back to front. Because the truth is, you probably don't.
Falling out of love.
When people fall in love, they do so for a number of reasons. For some people it is because they are lonely, and they have been longing to meet someone that they can talk to and spend time with at an intimate level. Though they might have friends, they feel their life is incomplete until they meet that someone. And once they meet that someone, they discover that they really didn’t need that person. They realize that they can stand up on their own. What they were looking for, they already had. They just never realized that. Thus they fell in love for the wrong reason and once that reason is fulfilled, they fall out of love.
It’s very easy nowadays to fall in lust and mistake that for being in love. And once that lusting desire is over, you fall out of love.
Most people, who fall in love due to chemistry and not commitment, are the ones that end up being in love with so many different people time after time. As soon as the chemistry goes, they fall out of love and move on to the next person they have chemistry with.
Chemistry is just the anticipation of sex. It won’t last forever. When you meet someone new, there is always the adrenaline rush, especially if you have things in common. Your body identifies with that person and once you are relaxed and comfortable with the person. Your desire to have sex with that person arises and that would end up to be a one night stand or several nights stands depending on how satisfied you are.
The other reason why people fall out of love is due to their expectations not having been met. When they fell in love, they had high expectations depending on what they wanted. But after some time in the relationship they discover that their expectations are not being met. Maybe they wanted someone who would compliment them and appreciate them, but this is not the case. Instead they have someone calling them names and disrespecting them. After they have had enough, they fall out of love with that person and move on to a different relationship with someone that meets their needs.
The other reason why people fall out of love is mistreatment by their partner. When they first meet someone he is so good, so sweet and kind. But after some time they change. The person then can’t take this anymore and falls out of love and moves on with their life and find someone who treats them better. Nobody wants to be mistreated though some people will tolerate it for a while. But just because they tolerate it, doesn’t mean they enjoy it.
Guys especially, tend to be sweet at first and later change into mean ones. These guys that do, that are already mean but pretend to be sweet when they meet a girl and once the girl is attached to them, their true self is revealed, since they can’t pretend forever.
And last but not least the reason why people fall out of love is because they weren’t in love in the first place. There was no commitment; there was just the idea. The idea of being in love seems awesome but it takes work to stay in love. You have to keep doing good. You have to keep appreciating your partner. You have to keep supporting your partner even when the times are tough you have to hang in there and stick together and solve problems together and enjoy victories together.
Being in love is so much publicized that a lot of people go into it without fully realizing what they are doing. They don’t really know the true meaning of being in love. They think of it as a candy shop, where you walk in when there’s candy and don’t go there when there’s no candy. With being in love, you walk in when there’s candy (chemistry) and even when there’s no candy (chemistry) you still stay until the candy (chemistry) is back.
Chemistry doesn’t last forever but being in love does. Chemistry contributes to the relationship being exciting, but love sustains the relationship and keeps it going.
A loss of chemistry is normally due to other commitments that take away the time for sex or a change in appearance of your partner. All these can be worked out by spending more romantic time together. The thing you liked about your partner at the beginning of the relationship should continue throughout the relationship. Relationships are about spending time together. Most relationships end because of lack of this.
If people fall in love for the right reasons and commit to it and build their relationship and keep on spending time together and supporting each other, then they will stay in love much longer.
People have different upbringings and thus different goals and expectations. This is why when they first meet someone new, they want to get to know them and see if they are on the same wavelength. The more things in common you have with someone the better the relationship. Communication is the key to any relationship. Couples that talk stay in love and couples who don’t talk stay out of love’. Thus when you meet someone new you have to know them first. Before there is contact of the genitals, there should be contact of the minds.
Successful relationships are based on trust, honesty, love, tolerance, sharing and forgiveness.
Most relationship breakdown is normally due to lack of one or more of these things.
Every relationship far or near will break up or maybe more one way or another. Later in life there will be more sacrifices than relationship themselves. You’re going to work, move out etc. You’ll always be leaving something behind. Life always changes, and so do relationships. You evolve with each other. It’s not about who loses and one person throws everything away to be with somebody. It’s more about accommodating them into your life and being considerate of each other.
Relationships are not simple things, they have so many factors and it is a complex process that others cannot understand fully unless it’s the two lovers. Even in person you’re going to be talking on the phone and webcamming, doing activities repeatedly. Long distance relationships are no different, they may have a higher thrill from seeing each only every so often. But it is also a beautiful thing, two people separated by distance and fate, working hard to write their own paths together.
So to whose who doubt long distance, and think “ohh you’re just going to breakup” So will you in person. So will you living next door to them. Even maybe because they exist further away you’ll learn the real meaning of appreciation, dedication and patience.
Those who doubt it should just never be in relationships if you’re always going to think of the end and conclusion. Every relationship is a learning process, it’s not simply break up and move on. It’s all about what you’re going to do with that time with them.
People spend too much time pondering the “what if and the end” than “what now and what can I do now to make sure we don’t walk separate paths”
Everyone says that LOVE hurts, but that's not true. Loneliness hurts. Rejection hurts. Losing someone hurts. Everyone confuse these things with LOVE. But in reality, LOVE is the only thing that covers up all the pain and makes us wonderful again.
“Sometimes, there are things in our life that aren’t meant to stay. Sometimes, change may not be what we want. Sometimes, change is exactly what we need. and sometimes, saying goodbye is the hardest thing you think you’ll ever have to do, but sometimes, saying hello again is the thing that breaks you down and makes you more vulnerable than you ever thought possible. Sometimes, change is too much to bear. But most of the time, change is the only thing saving your life.”
"Understanding"
Generally, I think I’m an understanding person? It can be wonderful but it can also be frustrating. Some are willing but others are closed off. When you understand a person, you could know how they feel. You could know what their favourite song to sing to in the morning. You could know how they like their eggs.
The effort isn’t always mutual. Sadly.
